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Are you going through a difficult time in your relationship? Or have you just broken up with your Lover? Couples break up all the time.
Just look at the top celebrity couples Jessica Simpson and John Mayer, Leonardo DiCaprico and Bar Refaeli, Drew Barrymore and Justin Long, Lindsay Lohan and Samantha Ronson, Megan Fox and Brian Austin Green – the tabloids can’t even keep up with how often they’re off and on again!
But for the average Jane and Joe, who can’t soothe their pain with a $10,000 spending spree on Rodeo Drive, there has to be a way to get past the situation and move forward with – or without – the other person in your life.
Men and women leave relationships for different reasons. It can be confusing trying to sort out the mind of the opposite sex. Even when we’re told something, we often feel there’s more to the story or that the other person is out and out lying about the situation, so let’s be blunt here.
If your lover has left you and given you some lame excuse like, “It’s just not working out,” you have to de-code that secrets speak and figure out what went wrong on your own so you can fix it.
Not every situation is cut and dry, but some are. Sometimes one of you cheats and that deliver enough of a punch in the gut to make the one who got hurt pick up and say goodbye.
Let’s face it, too – if someone cheated, there were problems long before the act of being unfaithful took place. If you’re not in a position where you can pinpoint the exact reason, then you have to understand men and women and what makes them tick.
People aren’t always clear in their feelings. Men are less clear than women. And both, men and women are not clear during heated arguments. Underneath that “I don’t trust you” is the true reason.
The specific circumstances are irrelevant right now – maybe you did something wrong – maybe they did. But the relationship ended, and now you want to repair the damage and reunite with your ex. Anyone who doesn’t give up and seeks out advice on how to make this happen is obviously committed and should be commended for making the effort.
One thing is for sure; if you want to make up the relationship then you must follow the plan. You must take action sincerely.
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By admin On October 18, 2009
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Today’s women can find it challenging sometimes to keep their marriages intact and happy. Many women wonder why men leave their wives and what they can do to make sure it doesn’t happen to them.
The truth of the matter is that our society has made it very difficult for men and women to find long term loving relationships. Why? Because the rules our society has adopted are based on inaccurate information.
One of the most obvious misconceptions that is pervasive throughout our society is the idea that men only want sex and/or have a much higher sex drive than women. The truth is that men and women have similar sex drives but men have been encouraged, by society, to fulfill their needs while women have been discouraged from having sex until they are married.
This leads to many misunderstandings between men and women and how they approach their relationships. It might mean a man will be more tempted to cheat on his wife because after all, it’s in his nature. And it could mean that a women uses sex with the hopes of keeping her husband in love with her so he will stay in the marriage.
If we really got to the bottom of things though we would understand that men and women want basically the same things in a relationship. Both want to feel loved, respected, and desired by their partners. When you break it down like that it doesn’t really seem all that hard, does it?
If you want to keep your marriage strong try to meet your husbands needs…all of them, not just sexually. A word of caution here though. Because of the way our society has told us to behave women have the tendency to think that they have to meet their husband’s needs even if that means ignoring their own. No! All that will do is make you resentful and bitter and that won’t keep a marriage intact.
While it’s important to try to meet your husband’s needs it can’t be done to the detriment of your own. Don’t put your wants and needs on hold to satisfy your husband, you’ll be unhappy, he’ll be unhappy (and bored) and the marriage won’t last. For a marriage to thrive both parties need to be happy, healthy, stable, and have their needs being met on a regular basis.
So for any women who want to know why men leave their wives it’s usually because his needs aren’t being met and I don’t just mean his sexual needs. I mean on some level he doesn’t feel like you love, desire, or respect him and he will try to find someone who will.
