Relation Advices Tips

If emotional blocks to meeting single women are too strong for self-help, don’t be afraid to try psychotherapy or tranquilizers! Also, if you are suffering from depression, seek help from your doctor who can prescribe you some really good antidepressant drugs to help you fight and overcome feelings of depression.

Some of you single men who read our dating tips archive may be so shy, inhibited, and psychologically blocked that you will be unable to truly profit from the advice contained in our archive or our books, cassettes, and videos on meeting, attracting, dating, and seducing single women. I beseech you not to come to any such conclusion until you until you have first made a strong, persistent effort to practice the methods and techniques in our dating tips and advice in our products. Remember that the overwhelming majority of single men who read our tips, books, listen to our tapes, and watch our videos will be able to use this advice effectively to meet, date, attract, and seduce single women without outside professional help.

But if you have powerful blocks, can not bear to start a conversation with a woman, or face the company of a date, no matter how hard you try, then you probably need psychotherapeutic help.

Get in touch with the nearest mental hygiene clinic, or ask your family physician to recommend a good psychiatrist or psychologist. Your physician may also prescribe one of the many, very effective tranquilizers, not as a cure-all but to help reduce your anxiety, embarrassment and fear sufficiently for you to begin going out, meeting single women, talking to them, and developing promising relationships.

This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles
Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to
successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with
women, please visit his website at: http://www.getgirls.com.

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Can you recognize the major red flag of dating? Are you able to discern who you can trust and who you cannot? How can you tell right away that a relationship is wrong for you?

The major red flag indicating future relationship failure is a broken agreement.

As a columnist, I hear from everyone from the heart broken to the hopeful, asking what they can do to make a relationship work. Here is a recent question:

I have met someone I care about but she makes me nervous about one thing. She never does what she says she will do. At least once or twice a week, she will say she is going to look for a new job, or clean up the house, or fix dinner, but she never does any of these things. If I ask her about it, she gets very angry. What can I do to help her?

Needs Help

Dear Needs,

Your last sentence should read, “What can I do to help her so I won’t have to notice that she cannot be trusted?”

Alarm bells should be going off for you, and you are looking for ways to help her? You need to help yourself to a place of greater self worth. If you are with someone who does not keep their agreements, what do you really have? You are clinging to the illusion of a relationship and what you have in store for you is the potential of long term heartache.

What can you do for her? Set a healthy example of how to take good care of yourself by getting some counseling. Give her the name and number of someone to call for help, if you want to feel you have made an effort to contribute to her well-being, but move away from each other until you have established a firm foundation of self esteem.

Hold strong to this central point: you deserve someone wonderful whom you can trust.

Start by trusting yourself:

* Trust that you are going to do everything you need to do to get a counselor who will help you understand what you want in life and how to find it.

* Trust that you have an issue larger than a girlfriend who will not keep her agreements.

* Trust that if you go for the learning and growth that you need to do here, this incident will actually have been a gift towards your deeper happiness.

* And finally, trust yourself to have the courage to stick with this until you have worked it through.

Good luck to you both.

Tonja

The Savvy Dating Coach

Visit http://www.tonjaweimer.com or http://www.singlesdatingtips.com for more tips, skills, and insight on dating, relationships, singles, and love. Subscribe to our F*ree Savvy Dating Newsletter from master single’s coach, life coach, and syndicated columnist, Tonja Weimer. Copyright 2006, Tonja Weimer. (Please note source if reprinting this article.)

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