Displaying Higher Value (DHV) to Women
July 1st, 2008
When it comes to meeting the hottest women and why most men
fail in getting anywhere…it would help to understand the
pure dynamics of what is clearly going on and from that
point, you will be able to see why you’ve been rejected and
how to start doing what is always proven to work.
Then you’d systematically be able to predict how and why
women respond so you can be that guy. Everyone’s making it
way more difficult than it really is. You’re not supposed
to become someone you’re not just in order to succeed.
There’s no special inner game tricks or NLP necessary at
all. Once you really get the dynamics of what’s going on in
the BIG picture, you’ll be fearless in approaching any woman
like me and you’ll be able to take it up from there without
ever having to think of what to say or getting thrown off by
her energy.
It’s supposed to be that simple and it really is once you
get rid of all that’s cluttered your own ability to
understand who you are and your destined relation to
everything around you.
When nice guys and most PUA’s get out there and approach or
communicate with women, they are finding it so difficult to
get anywhere primarily because they’re putting her as the
prize or catch to ‘win over’ whether they intend to or not
it SHOWS through.
They’re playing the game on her turf (socially) and it’s the
entire paradigm that they are living in; but it’s an
unnatural one in which women resent it for their own
sex/love life. It’s the opposite of natural attraction and
social influence is just covering it up.
I like to view relations as stimulus > response dynamic.
When the woman is placed as the prize to try and win over
(because socially she IS the prize), it begins a paradigm of
a losing battle that these men will continue to struggle
with because they’re operating in the social matrix instead
of using the power they have which is greater than any
woman’s social power (his natural character to spur her
NATURAL attraction response).
Men are responding to women as the stimulus and that is why
they are failing. It is so engrained in them to respond to
women (they’re beautiful, wonderful, glorified, etc.) by
society that there doesn’t seem any other way or that you
must be mentally unhealthy to not see it that way or to deny
their beauty.
You can be a bad boy/jerk who doesn’t give a damn or you can
be a real and balanced man that just understands his
relation to everything who realizes and keeps his power (and
also never gets rejected).
Playing the game on the social level and trying to display
higher value that way, let’s the woman obviously know that
she is the ‘catch’ and it bores her. That is not the way
of natural attraction.
So she will run off into the arms of the closest alpha
(natural) male who she can prize. He’s actually the closest
thing to her natural desires and not these other guys who
are social byproducts just like her beauty portrayal.
HE behaves differently around women because he’s always true
to his own self whether he approaches women or not, they
know where he’s coming from and he lets them know. They can
trust this man and know where he’s coming from (unlike other
guys trying to get in her pants and trying to deny that they
are in a way).
If you want the most success with women then you have to be
the stimulus so that women can respond to…from the very
beginning and throughout all of your communication with her;
it just is who you are.
By being a man of high natural character you’re already
starting out as DHV’ing her. If you ever want women of that
calibre you HAVE to display higher value.
And because most men can’t measure up to where she is
socially, they have to display high independent and/or
natural character in order to ever get anywhere (but they’re
actually showing lower value by putting her above
themselves).
By having high natural character, you will automatically BE
the stimulus around women because you understand your
masculine place in this world and that what you have is what
women want.
You are the one SHE should be chasing after and if you’re
chasing after her, it’s SO predictable that she will lose
interest, stop calling, etc. This also happens when you
‘tell her your feelings’.
Look, when it comes to attraction and who they sleep with or
really fall in love with, it doesn’t matter what women say
they want (socially) in a man; look at their actions and
their body language. To me it is such a predictable
formula.
Women cannot continue the propagation of life without man.
As a man you have the ability to ‘trigger’ the pre-eminence
of life itself by her attraction level in response to your
(natural) character. This is a great power that all men
have. The violation of that today and putting women as the
stimulus instead is why we have 40 year old virgins.
Aytime she has the power and favor and becomes the stimulus,
she is going to lose interest because it is NOT the way of
natural attraction and her body’s biology (which overrides
her social desires).
In fact if she didn’t have this ability to respond to your
power, she wouldn’t be woman or you’d better run. Thus,
knowing this is THE TRUTH you just have to get really clear
on it and where you stand and you will be able to operate on
Casanova level-like success.
Our society will continue to propagate all the wrong things
when it comes to attraction.
So nice guys will approach and take her on dates (even
online it’s so evident) and look at how they are
acting…they’re trying to display higher value often by
putting aside their own sense of self-respect to try and
impress her hoping that they can gain her validation but to
her, there’s no ‘chemistry’.
They end up displaying lower value by dropping in their own
character when it’s high character that women are drawn to.
He must stay strong and independent; alpha like in order
to have her attracted to him.
Because women are the ‘response’ they can’t really say
anything about it (plus they are forced to uphold societies
ideal) but they’ll run away with the closest natural man who
she can really respond to.
It’s time to give them some real options from men who are
more balanced than just the jerks and bad boys. All of us
have this natural character that’s just been repressed and
confused.
The pick up artists that are getting it right and succeeding
ARE being successful in displaying higher value. So even
though they went the hard way around to get there, they have
essentially become the stimulus that women can respond to
and that is evident throughout their communication.
So why not just step back and get yourself aligned to the
natural way of things so you can be the stimulus and see a
huge difference in how women respond to you and improvement
in your ‘game’?
Once you understand this simple underlying reality of
attraction, THEN would be the time to focus on the words to
say, how to approach, manage phone game, etc. because
things will fit into their natural order.
So if other guru’s out there want to make things harder than
it is on guys by still dealing with fear and trying to play
the game approaching her on the social level trying to DHV,
well…ok but it’s a lot easier than that once guys
understand the simple dynamics.
This is what I will be teaching in my mini-seminars (and
soon, in-field workshops).
Once men ‘get’ that they alone can and must be the stimulus
(no matter how beautiful she is) and understand their
relation to the social matrix and her beauty/power (so they
can be fearless and actualize their natural character), then
they will increase to a level of natural success with women
which takes a lot LESS time then studying a new set of
consciously developed (unnatural) techniques.
I can help you get to that point.
What’s ironic is you’ll actually stop worrying about things,
stop studying pick-up lines and realize that you can
actually just BE YOURSELF for once and fearlessly
communicate with women socially. You’ll be able to take it
from there once the women start responding as they
inevitably do because you already know instinctively how to
go through the entire process.
You can’t ‘trick’ women into feeling attraction for you
unless you really become an unnatural (ie. hypnosis) student
and she’ll still find out.
All that matters is a woman’s level of attraction response
to your character and you can communicate that in a few
seconds or minutes when you apply my re-awakening training;
NOT over days (trying to have to build it up or talk her
into it).
In order to end up with these women you’re going to have to
DHV (display higher value) nd because you probably don’t
match her on the social status level you’d better have your
natural game (and independent; just being yourself) together
if you want any success with these beauties.
Matching yourself as a response to her power on the social
game is the hardest thing to do. My training system is the
alternative (however you can use/filter them in tandem to
get the most out for your lifestyle).
So I recommend getting out there and practice just seeing
through the social matrix knowing that you have the power
as a man to cut through all of the glorified beauty and give
her the attraction response she feels as a natural woman.
I guarantee that you have that ability and it extends beyond
how beautiful she thinks she is.
But if you’re not fully congruent with that yet, there’s
only one thing to do: get my training products because
there is a lot of societal brainwashing (cleaning) that we
have to do first.
Have fun out there; there really is nothing to be afraid of
when you’re truly comfortable in your own skin!
When you are aware of your inherent natural character
and your relation to her social power, you will
automatically portray higher value without saying a word.
You won’t have to ‘talk her into’ anything because she’ll
know that you can deliver and the relationship will be where
it should be to finally take it places beyond just phone
numbers.