Sex
Is it okay to say no to sex in a marriage?
Yes. Marriage does not transfer consent in advance, and in most jurisdictions the law is explicit that it does not. That part is not a matter of…
Strong evidence11 min read
Evidence
The research
Every answer here carries a rating for how much the literature actually supports it. Most relationship questions score limited or contested, and that is not us hedging. It is the honest state of the field.
- Strong evidence
- Multiple independent studies, including replications or meta-analyses, point the same way. Browse these
- Moderate evidence
- Several studies support this, but samples are limited or findings vary by population. Browse these
- Limited evidence
- Early, small, or single-study evidence. Treat this as a reasonable hypothesis, not a settled fact. Browse these
- Contested
- Credible researchers disagree, or the evidence points in conflicting directions. Browse these
Best supported
Where the evidence is strongest
Genuinely open
Where credible researchers disagree
- Cheating
Can watching porn be considered cheating?
There is no objective line. It depends on what you and your partner actually agreed, and most couples have never had that conversation. Where it…
Contested2votes11 min read