Sex
Is it normal to have less sex after having kids?
Yes, and it lasts longer than most couples are told. Frequency drops sharply and recovers slowly over the first year and beyond, driven by…
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Sex
Covered frankly and clinically for an adult audience. Includes what the survey data really says about frequency, which is usually reassuring and almost always misreported.
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Is it okay to say no to sex in a marriage?
Yes. Marriage does not transfer consent in advance, and in most jurisdictions the law is explicit that it does not. That part is not a matter of…
Strong evidence11 min read - Sex
What do you do when one partner wants sex more than the other?
Start by treating it as the ordinary condition of a long relationship rather than a fault in either person. Research on desire discrepancy finds…
Moderate evidence10 min read - Sex
Why has my sex drive disappeared?
Usually because something changed that has nothing to do with wanting your partner. Medication, particularly SSRIs and some hormonal…
Moderate evidence10 min read - Sex
How often should married couples have sex?
There is no correct frequency. Survey data puts most married couples somewhere around once a week, with enormous variation, and the best…
Moderate evidence1votes9 min read - Sex
Is once a month a sexless marriage?
No. Every definition used in the actual research sets the line at no sex over a period, not at a low number, and once a month clears all of…
Moderate evidence12 min read